Many times, once you have kids they become the focus of the family. When holidays and special occasions come around people tend to buy gifts that may cater to the family or children. For example, if you're pregnant or just had a child around your birthday you may end up with many cute, new baby outfits. At Christmas time maybe you receive an ice cream maker or family season passes to the zoo. While these are wonderful and thoughtful gifts it would be nice to get something just for yourself. But ...